But what happens when that thing you can't agree on is anal sex? And in this case, it's the woman who loves and the man who is saying no. Is anal sex haram or not?please response my quetion. . of Quraysh used to make the woman lie in whatever position they wanted and enjoy. Almighty Allah says in the Qur'an:“Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth All Muslim jurists agree that anal sex isharam(prohibited), based on the.