For some women, like me, anal sex can be a mind-blowing addition to the bedroom. I've never had an orgasm based on anal sex alone, but it's. My personal experience Then (college): * almost no guys asked for anal sex * sex was pretty basic * oral sex was a bonus, not a given * almost. Why do men love anal sex? Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging. This experience seems to be.